I’m Kayla. I love craft nights. Glue, clay, the whole mess. So, yeah, I thought I could make a DIY butt plug. Cute idea, right? It wasn’t. And I’ll tell you why, with real stuff I tried, what went wrong, and what I use now that actually feels safe and comfy. Separately, the crew at Service Center Team went through a remarkably similar saga—if you want another honest, slightly embarrassed breakdown, you can read it here.
You know what? I learned a lot. Mostly what not to do.
Why I Even Tried
I saw some folks on forums say you can make your own. I figured I’d save money. I also like to tinker. I make candles and resin coasters. So I thought, “How hard can it be?” Turns out, bodies are not coasters.
Also, I’m picky about comfort. The shape needs a real base. The surface has to be smooth. Like, baby-smooth. Miss one detail and things get sketchy fast.
Attempt 1: The Silicone Idea That Smelled Like Trouble
I bought a kit that said “platinum-cure silicone.” Brand was from a pro mold shop (Smooth-On vibe). I made a simple clay mold. Mixed the parts. Poured. Waited. Looked okay at first.
Then I noticed:
- Tiny bubbles under the surface
- A faint seam line that felt sharp if you pressed it
- A weird vinegar-like smell that never fully went away
I sanded a test piece (not the “toy,” just a sample). The finish got gummy. That told me the cure wasn’t even. My gut said, “Nope.” I never used that piece inside my body. Thank goodness. The risk wasn’t worth it.
Lesson: If the finish isn’t flawless, it’s a hard pass.
Attempt 2: The 3D Print That Looked Smooth… But Wasn’t
A friend printed a small shape in PLA. We sanded it. It looked smooth. But 3D prints have tiny lines, like stacked rings. They hold bacteria. We tried a “food-grade” coating. It peeled after a warm water wash. My dish sponge caught on it. If a sponge snags, I’m not putting it anywhere near me.
Again, I bailed. No use. Just a lesson and a trash can moment. If you’re curious about other homebrew detours—like trying to whip up a fleshlight in the kitchen sink—you’ll get a kick (and a warning) from this wild DIY fleshlight build recap.
Attempt 3: The “Found Object” Temptation I Shut Down
I saw posts where folks use things like candles, kitchen tools, even rocks with “a good shape.” Please don’t. Anything without a wide, flared base can slip. That’s not drama; it’s physics. Hospitals see this. I didn’t even test this path. I knew better. I like my evenings calm, not in a waiting room.
What I Ended Up Buying (And Actually Liked)
After those fails, I bought real, body-safe stuff. Three different styles, so I could compare.
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Tantus Neo (silicone, small): Soft but holds shape. Matte finish grips lube well. Base is wide and comfy. No smell. Easy to clean with soap and warm water. I wore it around the house while I made coffee. No hot spots. No fuss.
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njoy Pure Plug 2.0 (small, stainless steel): It feels heavy in a good way. Cool to the touch at first, then warms fast. In winter, I rinse it under warm water for a minute, and it’s perfect. It’s shiny and super smooth—like mirror smooth. Cleaning is a breeze.
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b-Vibe Novice (vibrating silicone): The remote feels silly at first, then practical. Quiet enough that my neighbor didn’t hear a thing through thin walls. The tip is gentle. I used water-based lube and had zero drag.
I’ll admit, half the fun starts before the toy ever comes out. When I’m long-distance flirting or just warming myself up mentally, I fire up Kik for some cheeky chat; the free Kik Sex Handbook breaks down everything from finding the right groups to staying anonymous, giving you conversation prompts and privacy tips so you can build anticipation without any awkward missteps.
The Big Safety Stuff I Wish Someone Had Shouted
- Always use a flared base. No base, no go.
- Pick body-safe materials: platinum-cure silicone, stainless steel (316), or borosilicate glass.
- Skip resin, wood, stone, porous plastics, or anything coated.
- Surface must be flawless. No seams. No bubbles. No rough spots.
- Lube: water-based is easiest. Silicone lube is great, but not with silicone toys.
- Cleaning: warm water and mild soap. Silicone can be boiled for a few minutes. Stainless can handle a quick 10% bleach dip; rinse very well.
- Pain is not “normal.” If it hurts, stop.
Want a more in-depth, step-by-step primer on plug safety? This comprehensive butt plug safety guide breaks down materials, cleaning routines, and common mistakes in plain language.
If you want an easy-to-skim rundown of cleaning methods and material safety, the team over at Service Center Team has a concise guide that covers the essentials without the fluff.
Let me explain one more thing: you can be brave and still choose the safe route. Those two things don’t clash. They play nice.
Cost: DIY Wasn’t Cheaper (Wild, I Know)
My “cheap” plan got pricey:
- Silicone kit + mixing cups + pigments I didn’t even use
- Mold clay and a stand
- Sandpaper and sealers
- A 3D print that failed
I spent more than one Tantus plug by the end, and I still didn’t trust the result. Buying once ended up cheaper than failing twice.
If you'd rather touch-test toys before committing—and you’re anywhere near Northern California—drop by the curated boutique at Tryst in Morgan Hill—they stock body-safe plugs from the brands I trust, and their team walks you through sizing, lube pairing, and cleaning tips so you leave with total confidence.
How It Actually Felt Day to Day
I keep it PG, but I’ll be real. The silicone one is my “easy Sunday” choice. It’s light and comfy when I’m puttering, like when I bake zucchini bread. The stainless one is my “focus mode” pick, because the weight helps me notice posture and relax my breath. The vibrating one? Fun for short sessions, then I switch to a simple silicone piece for chill time.
If you’re curious about wearing a plug for longer stretches—say, during a whole work-from-home day—this Healthline primer on keeping a butt plug in all day highlights comfort cues, safety checks, and when to give your body a break.
“But Can DIY Ever Work?”
I get it. Makers gonna make. If you’re a pro with medical-grade materials and clean-room-level skills, you don’t need my take. For the rest of us? I don’t trust home builds inside the body. The risk is bigger than the reward. Craft a display piece if you want. Use a pro-made toy for actual use. And before anyone thinks “maybe a pump is safer,” I’ll just point you to this cautionary DIY penis-pump diary, which convinced me to leave suction gadgets to the pros.
My Verdict
- DIY butt plug: 2/10 — taught me a lot, but I never felt safe using the results.
- Buying body-safe: 9/10 — simple, clean, and reliable.
Would I try DIY again? Not for this. I’m fine being scrappy with candles and coasters. But for my body? I pick the real deal every time.
Quick Picks I Still Reach For
- Daily comfort: Tantus Neo (small)
- Sleek and heavy: njoy Pure Plug 2.0 (small)
- Short playful sessions: b-Vibe Novice
If you’re on the fence, I get it. I was, too. But once I stopped fighting the idea and bought a good, safe plug, the stress left my body. And that’s the whole point, right? Feeling calm, safe, and a little proud of yourself. Honestly, that feels pretty great.